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February 5, 2023
The Tale of Lost Marathons and Enduring Constellations
In the department of friendship, luck hasn’t been on my side. As I grew, that stark reality hit hard: the toll of time and growth meant losing 90% of my friends and that was quite painful .
Once, in the innocence of childhood, we were a tight-knit group. We dreamed big, shared secrets, and planned our futures during late-night conversations. We even rallied together, embarking on marathons of friendship. The bonds were solid, or so we believed.
But life took us on divergent paths, each of us chasing our dreams. The once-boisterous rallies turned into echoes, fading in the distance. Messages went unanswered, promises forgotten. The marathon slowed, and some friends dropped out, unable to endure life’s twists and turns. I think having a friend is very very important, Especially as a girl. you are so lucky if you have a friend in Europe. I tried my best…
Fake friends are like shadows, always present but never truly there. They wear masks of loyalty, yet their actions betray their deceit. They feed off your vulnerability, offering hollow words of support while plotting your downfall. In moments of triumph, they linger in the shadows, reluctant to celebrate your success. Their smiles are a façade, concealing envy and resentment. It’s painful to realize that the ones you trusted were merely actors in the play of your life, performing a role to suit their selfish agenda. But amidst the disappointment, the clarity arises: true friendship is built on honesty, loyalty, and genuine care, qualities that fake friends can never possess. It’s a tough lesson, but one that ultimately guides you towards authentic connections and a brighter path.
Stay away from negative people… they have a problem for every solution!
Protect your spirit from contamination. Negative people need drama like oxygen. Stay positive, it will take their breath away. This kind of people have all the time in the world. You know them! the dream killers, the so considered “fake friends” , The jealous types, the pessimistic ones…mention them.
I thought I found a friend on Instagram while living between Germany and Italy. We connected over our shared background and experiences. Meeting her in person was a joy, but soon after, rumors began swirling about me. Determined to change her opinion, I invited her to Italy, hoping to bridge the gap. Despite my efforts, she still held negative views. The world felt small as whispers found their way back to me. Feeling disheartened, I confided in someone wise who advised me to judge based on personal experiences, not hearsay. Recalling the good times, I reconnected with her, believing we had rekindled a true friendship. Sadly, it was all a facade, and I found myself exposed, a breach of the unspoken girl’s code. Despite the hurt, I chose to ignore, realizing that strength lies in forgiveness and intelligence in walking away from negativity. Sometimes you have to ignore certain people. Only weak people revenge, strong people forgive and intelligent people IGNORE!
As I lace up my emotional shoes for the continuing marathon of life, I carry with me the lessons of the past. Friends come and go, but the ones who stay, who cheer you on through every mile, are the true winners in this race of existence.
Good friends are like stars in life’s night sky, illuminating the darkness and adding sparkle to our journey. Their presence brings warmth to the coldest nights and brightness to the gloomiest days. They stand by us, not just during the highs but especially through the lows, offering comfort, laughter, and unwavering support. These friendships are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives, creating a tapestry of beautiful memories and unforgettable moments. Cherish them, for in this vast universe, genuine friends are the constellations that guide us home.