#Lipstick Tips
5 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T ON A FIRST DATE
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November 22, 2022
Ok! As you sip your Tea, let us get down to survival skills for the ladies, rather any female out there. I find men normally easygoing, not as difficult as women. To be precise, totally different from us, women . I know some men can really get complicated at times but I know both you and I prefer to focus on the less complicates ones đŸ˜€
Let’s begin with 5 Things you shouldn’t do on a first date.
*DRESSCODE
Try not to show too much skin. Too much flesh is not sexy. Its tempting, ooh Yes! Who will ever say No to a Hot meal? something about it just doesn’t give a good impression. You do not want this person judging you from what you’re wearing. I know, one is never to judge a book by its cover but in most case scenario, the outside appearances say a lot about it. I will very much choose an orange jolly looking pineapple to a green looking one. Keep your Red lipstick aside. You will put that later on… the key here is to have as less makeup as possible. you want him to see who you are, and like you for who you are but not for the face artist you are. surprisingly, most men, especially from the high society do not at all find make up attractive. they describe it as a shield that hides one’s beauty. let him see your beautiful freckles. take care of your face, invest on good skin products that will make your face glow. I am not saying makeup is bad, I love it myself. but once applied, I try to make it as natural as possible unless its a special occasion. please and please and please forget about the volume eyelashes. You look ridiculous! we can all see that. easy on the lashes, you’d want something that fits your perfect eyes and only enhance your beauty…Those giant six inch shoes you got… keep them for a girls night out or perhaps on the 5th date if you managed to get off the first one
*INTIMACY
You are on dry spell, we understand…but the extent to bed is just out of the picture. I hear nowadays its only done in bed…mmh !no comment on that. we get that you might want your back scratched, but on the first date….Nah-Aah.No!
In other words, Do not have sex on a first date. Why take the chance of giving it all on date one if you’ll be spending ‘forever’ together?. ..that’s how it’s supposed to be, right? At least that’s what they all say. I recently found out that forever is not as long as I thought it was đŸ˜€ I will not forbid you to kiss him. go on…
*BILL
Normally, the bill should be shared in two. But if he is a gentleman, he’ll probably offer to pay on the first date. Enjoy his generousity! BUT, even if he’s capable of getting you the stars, Be considerate. Like who doesn’t like exotic, imported, rare expensive food? ;D Order what you like. But not the most expensive meal or champagne on the menu just for the sake. you can always eat that later, definitely when he offers to pay again đŸ˜€
*COMPARISON
An Ex is an example of what you shouldn’t have in the future so please be kind enough not to compare him with your ex! You want your date to feel like he is the “one”… “Mr.Right” . He poked his nose or did some of your ex’s technics…shhh! it will not be long till you get home to call your Bestfriend, dear. Everybody hates that. I remember back while I was dating, on one of my worst dates ever(on upcoming article) the guy vigorously went on and on about his ex. poor man! whatever that girl did to him. my plan wasn’t to play psychologist but he left me no choice. It all went south when he started describing this girl in a way that I felt I knew her. I had an imagine of Aphrodite herself…yet I thought I am the goddess of beauty! pissed me off I had to order a nice (not most expensive) champagne to swallow the shade.
*COMPLAIN
His car is not good enough for you, Zip it! The food at the restaurant is not up to your standards, zip it! The waiter is slow, zip it! You like many others have had a bad day so do not talk about it, focus in NOT pointing out the negative aspects of life…Your feet hurt, just zip it! At all you have valid excuses to yap about, better not do it. enjoy the moment otherwise it will be evident that you are too much to handle. Nobody wants stress in this life. Talk about yourself but not constantly. let him talk about himself. Men love to be heard. They do not have time or idle friends to talk to so make sure you give him your ear.